Thursday, 19 February 2009
Love, Peace, and problem free E-mail
--Alex
P.S. Also, Kit, you have not activated your game knot account. You should have an email in which you can do this.
Monday, 9 February 2009
Anyway, the rest of my life is going fairly smoothly. I co-mediated an argument in class today, which was a complete pain in the ass. I mean, I think we can all agree that people can be a tad unreasonable at times, but it must be excruciating being a conflict mediator. Don’t get me wrong, I think I got a lot out of it, and it was only for about half an hour or so (when the teacher had to stop it) but wow.
In other news, I’m starting to meet other adults, besides my host parents. For example, I was at a friends house last night, planning out the facilitation of today’s class, and when her host dad opened the door, he was able to refer to me by my first name and greeted me with a smile so warm I’m considering wearing sunscreen next time I see him. I mean, I have met him before, but only twice and only for a few minuets each time. Or, today, I was walking down the road as an elementary school was being let out and a woman said “Hello, Alex,” as she walked by. I had only actually seen this woman once before at my host families house for about five minuets before I had to go to dance class. My point is every one here is really outgoing and gregarious. (In stark contrast to all those jerks in America)
I’m really enjoying cooking for myself, but I don’t feel like I’m doing it in such a way that would open me to experiences about certain cultures in Derry. I mean, sure, I can get everything I need in Tesco or Spar or I can go down to the corner store and get some candy late at night, but I haven’t been able to find a bakery or local produce store. I saw a butchers once, but haven’t been able to find it since. I might just need to get my host family to give me a tour.
Anyway, that’s all my news for now. This blog might start to get boring because I am going to start doing more homework and might start having fewer adventures. But I will be on every once in a while to say Hi and let everyone know that I am thinking of them.
Peace, Love, and Conflict Resolution
--Alex
Friday, 6 February 2009
Anyway, life here is still OK. We just had our third dance class, and we are all getting pretty good. Its kind of fun as well. I can see why people liked doing it so much in, you know, the bowels of ships, etc. We also had our first official tin whistle class. We are learning a couple of songs, and I have gotten some music offline to learn. I’m trying to learn a song called ‘Ann Maguire’s Silver Wedding’, which is really pretty. Those of you who have never heard this song can go here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=12fctBQS7ws
(I imagine that this link will be seeing a lot of use)
Anyway, everything else is going fine. I do feel a bit homesick, unfortunately, and am worried that that might be affecting how I am able to enjoy these experiences. But I will be here for a while, and I hear that this is fairly common. Anyway, I hope you are all well. Have to go because the library is about to close, but hope I get to see you soon.
--Alex
P.S. I have been hearing from a few people that they really enjoy reading this blog. Now, maybe they are just being nice and trying to conceal the fact that my blog sucks, but if they are, I would like to remain oblivious to that, and thank a few people. First, Mom and Omi, who have a way, like most mothers, of beating many of my good habits into me without an ounce of mercy, no matter how much I beg and plead for the path of least resistance. I hope the hard work is paying off. Second, Laura, whose demand for emails last semester gave me some pretty invaluable practice, and whose love and support has been wonderful in more ways then I can count. In Gaelic. (Unless the word for twenty is just the word for ten spoken twice in a row, I can only count to 19) Thank you.
Thursday, 5 February 2009
Hi everyone. Unfortunately, Earlham's email server is out, so I would like to apologize to everyone who was supposed to get Email today from me. (Sorry, Laura)
Monday, 2 February 2009
Sunday, 1 February 2009
Slept in a bit the next morning, but didnt have class until 2:30 anyway. We had some music at dance class this week, hich was good fun, and I asked a guy about a fiddle lesson or two. Tin Whistle is going well, if you dont count the fact that we have yet to take one single lesson, and I thought it would be good to at least get a feel for it, even if I dont learn anything. Although if that doesnt work out, I could always get my host sister Ciara to teach me something.
Anyway, after that I went to A Bloody Sunday memorial. It was OK. They read some poems and left some flowers. A few people looked sad, but a lot of people seemed, not happy, but at least content to be around people like them. They had a minuet of silence, and then everyone went home.
After that, I had dinner with my family and then went to a talk about the Bradly- Eames report. I had a hard time following some of the things that were being said about the politics of the report, but the questions that were asked by the audience at the end were facinating. Some people wanted to take the money, some people were two proud, other people wanted varying degrees of justice. Facinating stuff.
Then yesterday night, I went to the Bloody Sunday lecture, which was given by a guy called Clive Stafford Smith, who was really funny and interesting, and much easier to follow. He talked about secret prisons and the use of torture by the American Millitary. (I know its not really a Bloody Sunday related topic, but oh well) Any way, I made a contribution of £5 after he was done and then went home.
I've been having trouble sleeping lately, and when I do, I sleep for more like 10 hours rather then 8. I feel like it must just be the stress of being in a new country, but still, its kind of inconveinient. Im starting to do my own shoping, rather then eating with my family. Its probably good, because this way I will get more of the spanish experience, but my host mom is a really good cook, and Im not. Also, I need to start finding the stores around town that sell the things I need. I mean sure, I could get my stuff from Tesco, but once you read the lable and find out that the sausages are 9% pork and the other 91% are ingredients that you can pronounce right away, you feel compeled to shop else where.
Sadly, I will not be going into the Prodestant neigborhood to talk to the people there. I have asked the program director Mervyn Love for his permission, and he had unfortunatly declined. Appearently the population of these areas dont take kindly to strangers, as it were, and they may be hostile to people asking questions. (I dont know if Mervyn realized that telling me this would make me want to fake a british accent and sneak into the neighborhood even more) I will be working at an integrated school later on, so I will just wait untill then to ask my questions.
Almost time for the Bloody Sunday March, so I will be off. Keep posting your comments everyone. (Even you, kit)
--Alex
Thursday, 29 January 2009
Ok, so teusday was fairly uneventful. I didnt have class until 3:15, so I read at home and then walked around town for a while. When I finally got there, we reviwed the stuff from the reading and got into groups to role-play conflict resolution. I know it sounds kind of lame, but we really got into it, and spent most of the time laughfing. That said, we should probably take it more seriously next time. Anyway, after that I walked around for a while and waited for my first tinwhistle class, which was ultimately a disapointment. We were supposed to meet in a classroom at a local school elementery, but he was late, so we played with the instruments. We had a pretty good band going, lots of percussion, and eventually were told that class was cancled. I went to a friend's house and a few of us watched a british TV show called the IT Crowd. It was funny in a very british way, some parts more then others.
Anyway, the next morning, yesterday, we had our 'women in community building' class. Being the only guy, this class is interesting enough. Our teacher decided to take us to a women's conference. At first I felt a bit self concious, since the only other men were waiters or photographers, but then a voice poped into my head that I usually dont hear unless I am walking by the acadamy store and have the urge to spend all of my money of fruty pastells. Anyway, it told me: 'Eric Alexander Kyle Wheeldon, shame on you. Why, if you let being the only man here bother you then your no better then all the other guys who avoid attending these conferences because they can be botherd to drag their extra chromosone out of bed.' After that, I was able to take something out of it. We still learned, but in an environment were the boy-girl ratio was no longer 1-12, but rather 1-100. Still, very informative. (Even that was rather telling/ educational, though)
After we were done that, we were all given a complementary lunch, which was very good. And then I spent 4 hours at the library answering various Emails. Nothing remotely productive. Later at home, I also did nothing productve, mostly read for fun and ate some dinner, and then returned to the library. Tried for and Hour and a half to get my computer working, but alas, no such luck.
Anyway, this morning I got up early and went to both classes. Pretty uneventful, but people plan on going out tonight, and I do beleive that I will join them. I was also able to set up a school visit (extracurricular) and have asked for permission to venture into the protestant neighborhood and do interviews about the reaction to coverage of the Gaza conflict. I feel like thats one of the things about this city, that some things will give themselves to you, and other things need to be sought out. I will of course, let every one know how these things go.
Other develpoements in the last 72 hours include the realizations that Wikipedia is perhaps the best way ever to get infromation, Pandora is essential for entertainment, and facebook is a cesspool of human anti-intelectualism. Again, sorry for not writing back sooner. Hope everything in the states (and New Zealand) is well. Have to go now, but will write soon.
Peace, Love, and what-not
--Alex
P.S. Take that Kit!
P.P.S. Kit, there is totally an antique shop called 'what-not' in Derry.
P.P.P.S. I cant wait to see everyone in Germany in a few months to, you know, hang out and whatnot...
P.P.P.P.S. Cassie, watch this:
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=CNQI37XYJl4&feature=related